Hi, I'm Saige!
(she/they)
I am trans, polyamorous, and kinky.I'm also a relationship coach.I love helping people like me have better, more fulfilling relationships.
Relationship Coaching
You deserve relationships that bring you joy, and you deserve a life that brings you meaning and fulfillment.As a polyamorous and kinky relationship coach, I am uniquely equipped to help you get there.
Discover the Relationship Style That Fits You
Are you questioning monogamy or exploring non-monogamy for the first time? I understand how overwhelming and confusing it can feel. Where do you even start? What options are out there?Have you been non-monogamous for a while, but things just don't feel right? Maybe you know you want something new, but you're not sure what you want or how to get there.Luckily, the fulfilling relationships you're looking for are entirely possible and achievable!
Together we will identify the relationship dynamics that align with your values and desires, as well as an actionable plan to make them a reality.
Navigate Non-Monogamy with Confidence
Opening up a relationship or starting to date non-monogamously can be daunting! It's a new world, with new rules and social scripts. If you are opening up with an existing partner, there will be radical changes in the way you relate to one another, and it helps to be prepared.I have personal and professional experience in the world of non-monogamous relationships. I would love to support and encourage you on your exciting new journey!
Our sessions together will offer a supportive and empowering space for you to navigate this journey with clarity and confidence.
Enhance Communication and Resolve Conflict
Communication is key to healthy and long-lasting non-monogamous relationships. Are you navigating a conflict in your current relationships? Are you thinking about opening up and want to build these skills early? Effective communication is a valuable skill that YOU have the power to develop and grow.
Together we will learn and practice strategies to express your needs, manage conflicts, and nurture deeper connections with partners.
Turn Emotional Challenges into Growth Opportunities
Non-monogamy brings with it both familiar and unique emotional hurdles. Jealousy, personal insecurity, guilt and shame, breakups, metamour conflicts, sexual compatibility — the list goes on. While these experiences can be uncomfortable and upsetting, they can also offer incredible opportunities to learn and grow.
Together we’ll navigate these emotional challenges and transform them into opportunities for self-discovery and personal growth.
Affirm and Explore Your Identity and Sexuality
Are you questioning or exploring your gender or sexuality? Are you interested in kink and BDSM, or looking to expand your current horizons? Perhaps you’re wondering how non-monogamy intersects with gender, sexuality, or neurodivergence.I get it — I’ve been there. I am a transgender queer woman who practices the kinky lifestyle every single day. I am also AuDHD and demisexual, embracing all of my identities and how they show up in my relationships.
We will walk the path of self-exploration together, finding what feels authentic to you and building relationships that honor all aspects of who you are.
Here is a short list of some areas where I can offer support and guidance:
Discovering the kinds of relationships you want
Opening up your relationship
Understanding and dealing with jealousy
Managing multiple partners and metamours (your partner's partners)
Creating relationship agreements
Handling conflict in relationships
Processing emotions on your own and with partners
Handling differences in sexual desire in relationships
Expressing your sexual needs
Exploring BDSM and kink
Crafting D/s dynamics in your relationships
Sexuality and queer identity
Gender identity and coming out
Dating with neurodivergence
Ready to get started? Book a session now, I can't wait to work with you!
Remember: you deserve to have the relationships you want.
Don't settle for less.
Interested in Booking?
I can’t wait to chat with you!
Have a question?Use the contact form or send me a message at [email protected].